Next to God, My Wife My Life.
Inspired by God (Sept 25,2013)
Bro. JTJ
Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
Treasured with love.
Next to God, husbands must love their wives with high importance, our wives are gift from God and we must remember that. They are more valuable than precious stones (priceless) and it needs to be treasured with love.
Ephesians 5:28-33
In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church
If you take care of her, she will take care of you.
We take good care of our body,
(Treat our wife the same) Food, Clothing, Shelter are just basic things they are important too, but think how you can help to lessen the work of one another, especially your wife, and let her feel appreciated give her positive comments on her cooking, how she fix her hair, how she dress up, or take her out from time to time remember if you take care or her she will take care of you.
Colossians 3:19
Husbands love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
Fake it till you make it.
Wives have sensitive feelings so next
Time, hold before you react
It is better to be delay than to be sorry, however,
No one is perfect from time to time we
Let negative emotion slip out, when that happen swallow your pride right or wrong nobody wins, there’s a saying fake it till you make it, it’s not faking things; all its saying practice makes perfect, you fail now with your emotion, try again never give up until you make things perfect (Of course you need God’s guidance)
1 Peter 3:7
Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
If you can’t beat them join them…
No wonder why your prayer is not answered you have insulted your wife, listen she may be wrong but that doesn't mean by not respecting her you are right, you have to understand her, study your wife you may be together for how many years now, but still there are some attitudes that you don’t know about her ask some question court her if you must (it’s like asking her to be your girlfriend) and if things still not better then, if you can’t beat her joined her….
(only then you can beat her) do something special until you fully understand her thoughts and feelings, Then only then you can love her, unconditionally.
Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. Mark 10:9
“No marriage will go to court if only husband continues how to court”
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